When my grandmother was 90, she was diagnosed with colon cancer. They
said they wouldn’t operate because she was too old. She said she
thought they were wrong, and went back to work. Wrong about the
diagnosis, she was glad they wouldn’t operate.
At that time, they also told her that her blood pressure was a little
high, and she should cut back on salt. She ignored them.
At 98, my grandmother broke her hip. They replaced her hip, and she
ended up in a wheelchair. She kept complaining that they had botched
the surgery. She made us get her a computer and teach her email. She
kept emailing doctors, lawyers, medical boards, and finally they
decided that she was right, something in surgery had gone wrong. The
re-did the surgery, and 6 months later, she danced at a bar mitzvah.
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